Category Archives: Conflict
This post addresses domestic abuse counseling from a biblical counseling perspective. Continue reading
When it comes to conflict in relationships, Ken Sande says there are really only three kinds of people: peace-fakers, peace-breakers and peace-makers. Continue reading
A major part of the vision of the Biblical Counseling Coalition is being a “megaphone” for the best of the best in biblical counseling resources. Today’s post alerts you to ten biblical counseling resource list by Pastor Paul Tautges. This post originally was posted at Paul’s site and is re-posted with Paul’s permission. Continue reading
According the Bible, Satan prowls around like a lion looking for someone to devour (1 Peter 5:8), but many times, he probably doesn’t have to do that much. I wonder if sometimes Satan sits back and laughs at us. We don’t need Satan to ruin our marriage. We do plenty of unhelpful things on our own to ruin our marriages. I’m sure Satan enjoys having a front row seat, watching our folly and foolishness. Continue reading
In the last few months I have heard of, consulted with, or directly counseled more churches involved in conflicts than any other similar time in my 3 decades of ministry. Because of this I have found myself asking, “What in the world is going on? What is God up to? Why is the LORD allowing His name to be dragged through the mud?” Continue reading
There are three questions that need to be asked to this husband when you meet with the couple: How are you loving your wife? How are you leading her? How do you show long-suffering? Continue reading
BCC Staff Note: You’re reading Part 3 of a BCC Grace & Truth blog series on marriage. Read Part 1: Counseling the Marriage Stuck in Neutral and Part 2: Vows, Promises, and the Problem of Love. Responding to Marital Suffering When … Continue reading
Rarely does a week go by that I don’t hear a spouse’s story of struggle and disappointment in marriage. While not on the brink of divorce or separation, they are spouses struggling to find hope that their marriage is going to get better. The daily routines of marriage have now become the daily frustrations and irritations of a marriage that once was envisioned as a shining portrait of Christ’s relationship to his church but has subsequently devolved into a stagnant, loveless obligation. Continue reading
BCC Staff Note: You’re reading Part Three in a multi-part BCC Grace & Truth blog mini-series by women biblical counselors. Read Part One: Real Women and Their Real Savior, and Part Two: Little Trials or Big? Thoughts on Submission, Passivity, and … Continue reading


