Paul Tautges

It’s surprising to me that this is being presented as a rather new way of thinking. This has always been my approach; this is not a new idea. I have found, however, that this approach has not been popular among those with counseling degrees. Have we gone too far in formalizing this idea? God qualifies His counselors, hence even a child or a child-like adult, can accomplish this. No degree necessary. Redefinition by getting everyone to use the same dictionary is necessary, however.

Are there any biblical resources you recommend to define spiritual abuse or spiritual manipulation within the church? 

Thanks, Teemu! Seeing your comment is a “Duh” moment for me. Adams’ book is excellent and regularly used in our church. I have added it to the original list on my blog site.

For those struggle to process the trauma and forgive the adultery of a spouse, there is a video-based curriculum at www.bradhambrick.com/truebetra…. 

Teemu, Thank you for that additional recommendation. That’s why we encourage people to share with our “Join the Conversation” question.